SOVET skazy chto znayu. Ya ne razvodilas, no info sobirala na ety temy, i s social workerami i shelterami razgovarivala.
Podymayte o bydyschem detey. Razvodites v Kanade- bistro polychite dengi. Obespechite ih kazdogo do 18-23h let. I na Ykraine voyna, kakoy syd o chem vi govorite, tyt esche neizvestno ili posolstvo ostanetsya. I dolgo eto bydet vse mnogo let i peresilka. Vernytsya na Ykrainy vi vsegda smozete potom. Esche neizvestno chto tam s sadikami i shkolami bydet i bankami gde dengi polychat, mozet propast' v perevode. Bydete letet' v Kanady, ne letite cherez Lygansk , Donets ili voennie tochki,blizko k Rossii, chtob samolet ne sbili.
Delayte seychas, poka vash myz ne podal na razvod i chto vi detey ykrali. Ya dymayu poiskom socialnogo ziliya s sheltore i razvodami ydobno zanimatsya v teploe vremya, ny do October mozet yspeete, poka ne -40 gradysov. Esli vi konechno ne imeete mashiny v Kanade. Na transporte s det'mi zimoy(avtobuysi ploho hodyat. Obgovorite mozet social workers pomogyt, kto bydet s det'mi poka vi razvodami bydete zanimatsya.
1 variant- SHELTER. Vam nyzno bilo ne yezzat na Ykrainy a obratitsya v shelter.
Mozet vi mozete priehat i poyti v shelter. No dogovorites s nimi zaranee i yznayute vse detali, chtobi mesta bili, kak vas zaberyt. napishite im email. mozet scype pozvonite chtob ne platit'.Esli oni vam ne posovetyyt vse napishite social workeram po email. Mne pravda tolko pe telefony otvetili, na email poprosili pozvonit'.Pyst vam splaniryyt kak lysche, esli povezet ne na dyrakov popast'. Pobolshe pishite, vse voprosi sprashivayte.
Esli pro Ykrainy sprosyat, skazite bili y roditeley , na dengi roditelei zili i riehali tak ka doma bilo nevinosimo, ne znali chto mozno obratitsya v shelter. V Ykraine voyna poetomy hotite vernytsya v Kanady. Y vas deneg nety, myz deneg na detey ne daet.
Esli vi ploho znaete English, svyazites s social workerom, oni daze perevodchikov predostavlyayut.
Po sheltery poischite web site, tam obichno napisano kakie servici shelter predostavlyaet, chtobi vibrat s pobolshe bazoy(gymanitarki i pomoschi), kakiy y vas bydyt ysloviya ziliya. Ny obichno oni vam gotovyat komnatyu. Vo napromer info po Edmontony
family violence center 780-455-6880 otvechayut na autootvetchik 780-101-0101 Kelti ona dala
family violence prevention center 780-423-16-35
family law 780-415-0404
family law780-415-88-00
social work(translators)780-424-55-80
WIN house 780-479-0058
Shelter Type: Emergency
Organization Name: Edmonton Women's Shelter Ltd.
Crisis Phone: 780-479-0058
Business Phone: 780-471-6709
Shelter Email:
ewsinfo@telus.net
Website:
http://www.winhouse.org
Primary Clients: Women with/without children
Primary Focus: Abuse and assault
Accessibility:
Accessible Communication: yes
Accessible Transportation: yes
Access to Attendant: yes
Sensitivity-Trained Staff: yes
Programs and Services
Programs and Services Offered:
• Outreach Services & Programs
• Public Education Programs
• Training Opportunities for Staff
• 24 Hour Crisis Line
• Children Support Programs
• Danger Assessment
• Crisis Intervention
• Toll Free Access to Crisis Line
• Clothing Bank
• Non-Prescription Drugs
• Cook on Staff
• Supportive Counseling & Case Management
• Personal Incidentals
• Transport to Emergency Medical/Dental Care
• Follow up Services
• Housing Support and Advocacy
• Volunteer Programs
Programs and Services Provided by Partners:
• Court Support & Advocacy
• Outreach Programs
• Specialized programs for immigrant, refugee and trafficked women
Programs and Services Referred:
• Children's Group
• Domestic Violence Treatment Programs
• Parenting Programs
• Specialized Programming for Children Exposed to Violence
• Specialized Programming for Aboriginal Clients/Other Cultures
• Specialized Programming for Parents
• School Programs
• Client Recreation
• Food Bank
• Legal services
• Comfort Allowance
• Collective Kitchen
• Clinical Treatment for Adults
• Clinical Treatment for Children
• Safe Visitation Programs
• Support Groups
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Am I being abused?
FAMILY/RELATIONSHIP VIOLENCE - WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
When people talk about violence in families and relationships they are usually talking about abuse. Abuse includes a range of behaviours from intimidation and threats to physical or sexual assault. An abuser uses these to gain power and control over the victim and to try and take away their sense of self worth.
Examples of Abuse
Abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional and financial. The following are only a few examples of abusive behavior:
• Humiliating or degrading you while alone or in front of others
• Yelling at you, insulting you or calling you names
• Isolating you by stopping you from leaving home, using the telephone, or having visitors
• Not letting you have any money
• Controlling and limiting what you do, where you go, who you see, and what you wear
• Breaking your things and damaging property
• Threatening you, your children, your pets, or someone you know
• Forcing you into sexual activity you don't want
• Shoving, slapping, choking, punching or kicking you
• Hurting you with an object of any kind
http://thetodaycentre.ca/index.php/isthisabuse
Financial Abuse
leaving little or no money for clothing, food, and children’s needs. Didn't first need stuff buy for me and baby saying we don't need anything.
Emotional Abuse constantly abuse me
- name calling and humiliation, threats and ‘mind games’, withholding love to control or change behaviour, i.e. ‘the silent treatment’, extreme jealousy and accusations.
K myzy domoy boites' za detey i sebya,on vas abusing, poetomy i sbezali.Skazal chto dom spalit i tp. Vse detali, chto na detey ne tratil, organichival vas i detey v ede, odezdei razvitii(kryzki).. Napishite sebe speech- kratko fakti po dely(mnogo chitat i slychat nikto ne lybit). kogda bydete pisaT' MNOGO CHEGO VSPOMNITE, FAKTOV POBOLSHE. Esli on vas abusing, znachit hren emy detey ostavyat, nikogo on ne zaberet. A esli y vas est police report na nego, prigoditsya v syde. Iz sheltora y vas pozitsiya preimyschestva. i K SOCIAL WORKERAM POBOLSHE OBRASHENIY.Eto vam potom v syde prigositsya- kak dokazatelstva, chto vam davali taloni na edy(tyt oni kartochki v Safeway dayut, odezdy, baby care, igryshki i gymanitarky. Vam bymazet pobolshek nado podtverzdayuschih bydet.
Iz Ykraini zaberite vse dokymenti dlya syda, chtob vremya ne tratit'.
I v Interpol on ne zayavit, tak kak nahodyas v sheltere goverment bydet znat' gde vi i chto on vas abusing. Esli vi podadite na takoy razvod- chto i est pravda, to ya dymayu syd bydet na vashey storone.
I pri abuse syd reshaet srazy razvod, bez separation 1 year.
I zili bi za schet goverment houses dlya maloimyschih(200$ v mesyat)poka oformlyaete razvod. Veshi vzyat' mozno odny symky. Ostalnoe zabiraete potom s social worker. V sheltere obyzsnit prichiny( financial , emotinal abuse or physical). Obiasnite tam chto net deneg, osobenno esli y rebenka diabet. Skazite chto s detmi, chtobi krovatki bili. Y nekotorih est free taxi, chtobi vas zabrali (ne s doma, chtob myz ne videl, a s dogovorennogo mesta)sprosite. Edite nikomy ne govorya, kogda ego doma net, chtobi ne ybil kogda yhodite.
Pered tem kak ehat yznat' est li svobodnie mesta.v google naydite lysche konechno rayon bezopasniy(bez bomzey). chto to tipa
http://www.calgarywomensshelter.com/ ili
http://humanservices.alberta.ca/homelessness/14633.html
Ya dymayu tam vas prikrepyat k social workery ili skazyt kyda obratitsya i on vam is yristami i vsemi voprosami bydet pomogat, i vam otkroyutsya l'igoti na donation food, mebel, baby stuff,gymanitarnyy odezdy, igryshki, free sport, basseyn, sektsii(Edmonton imeet takoe), i goverment kvartiry i goverment bydet doplachivat kindergarden ( vi platite kopeyki v zavisimosti ot dohoda- vse chto dlya maloimyschih. Takze v nalogah deklaratsii ezegodnoy vi mozete vpisivat sektsii v rashodi i s vas ne bydyt brat nalog podohodniy.
V sheltore (v Edmontone tak) 2-3 nedeli vi ischite zilie. I cherez mesyat vas stavyat na goverment posobie ne pomny 1000-1300$ v mesyat. Esli zilie ot goverment it's ok. Bydete zit' i razvoditsya. A potom zilie vam bydet myz oplachivat' kogda razvedetes'.
Children benefit.
A kto y vas s goverment benefiti na detey polychat, myz? Esli deti rodilis v kanade to vi (MOTHER) imete pravo polychat' benefiti. Esli myz polychaet vi zapolnyaete ankety na child benefit
http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/E/pub/tg/t4114/t4114-14e.pdf
Zapolnyaete ankety ona avtomaticheki vse benefiti (federal, provincial, vklychaet ). P od ankety vam nado otkrit' schet v canada banke(skazete v banke nyzen schet slya polucheniya child benefit) . Otkritie free , 10-20$ polozite deposit. I vozimete y nih dokyment direct deposit gde bank rekviziti . Etot dokyment podpisat i otpravit s anketoy v Canada revenue aagency. Da v ankete napishite chto prosite polychat dengi na svoe imya tak kak myz financial abuse i vam ne daet deneg na detey. Zapolnite vse eto vam mozet i social worker pomocht toze. Mne immigrant help ogranization pomogla. Dengi pereveli na menya. I bydete ezemesyachno polychat tak kak vi 1st who take care of children, not father. Ot menya oni trebovali tax report for the current year dlya provincial benefit(tak kak ono nachislyaetsya s dohoda). Universal vi i tak polychite ono vsem odinakovo. Napishite mne ya obiyasny kogda oniv am otvetyat. yze polychiv vashy ankety. Vam nado kazdiy god delat po lybomy ety tax return declaration chtobi prodolzat polychat benefiti, esli net ne polychite. Etot sdelaete sami ( ya mogy prokonsyltirovat)za 2013 a sledyyschiy god immigrant organization delayut v period sdachi january-february free tax reports. Sprosite social workera kakie ili pozvonie v Calgary city spravochnyy vam skazyt tam volanteri delayut. Esli net to canada tax return agency sprosite kto v calgary delaet mozet oni znayut.
Universal child benefit vam polozeno (100$ na kazdogo rebenka vne zavisimosti ot dohoda)
http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/bnfts/uccb-puge/menu-eng.html
canada child benefit ( zavisit ot semeynogo dohoda)
http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/bnfts/dsblty-eng.html
+ naverno vi i na disabiliti benefit s diabetom toze polychite
http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/bnfts/cctb/menu-eng.html
Alberta benefiti na rebenka
http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/bnfts/rltd_prgrms/lb-eng.html
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2- variant s visileniem vashego myza iz doma. -
http://thetodaycentre.ca/index.php/news ... -order-epo
Emergency Protection Order (EPO) This order prohibits your abuser from certain actions against you, and an enforcement paragraph within it gives the police the power to arrest your partner for breaking it. Breaching the order is not a criminal offence, but it may be in civil contempt of court.
Restraining Order
This order prohibits your abuser from certain actions against you, and an enforcement paragraph within it gives the police the power to arrest your partner for breaking it. Breaching the order is not a criminal offence, but it may be in civil contempt of court.
http://thetodaycentre.ca/index.php/news ... ning-order
No ya bi ne delala eto. Nebezopasno dlya detey i sebya. Malo li on vas ybit zahochet, chtob ego dengi vam ne dostalis. A daze pri police order tyt politsiaya takaya medlennaya. Vizivaesh srochno a priedet cherez 30 minyt. Yze 100 raz pribit' mogyt za eto vremya.Esli chto sovetyyt bezat ne ostavatsya doma.
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FREE LAWER i razvod
razvod to chto mne yristi s free ekonsyltatsii v edmontone govorili . esli konechno vi ne podpisivali bymag na to chto otkazivaestes' ot vsego ili family agreement zaranee o raspredelenii deneg pered svad'boy.
1-Vam polozeni alimenti naverno 1/4 dohoda myza(na free legal phonei tam schitayut)
Poka vi zena 50% doma vashi ne vazno platili vi za dom ili net, 50% ego mashini, sberezeniy i vsego vsego. On ne imeet prava vas viselit poka vi zena. Prodat' dom on ne mozet bez vashego pissmennogo soglasiya y yurista(eto novie youridichsskie pravila mi prodavali dom tak ya podpisivala). Dom on ne spalit, esli dom viplachen, skoree vsego on zastrahovan. Emy ne vigodno palit'. Pri razvode on polychit 50% a spalit, tak bez doma ostanetsya, na starosti let eto bilo bi symashcehstvie. Ny est dyraki konescho, pogovorite s yuristom na temy spaleniya.
2-Vi moege poprosit wife support(sprosite y free lawer oni poschitayut)- myz bydet oplachivat vam zilie(kvartiry i rashodi). Symma zavisit ot skolko zenati. Ya dymayu vi moege ne rabotat' osobenno, esli odin iz detey diabetik i deti malenkie. Esli tyt po zakony nelzya detey do 12 let ostavlyat odnih to mozet i bydete sidet do 12 let doma.
3- Mozete takze zapsosit' s myza na extra rashodi-rebenok diabetik lekarsta
syd process vedite free. 1- free yourist koncyktatsiya(no skazite im chetko oni ponyali chto free i tolko kolsyltatsiya a to oni vseh pitayutsya zapihnyt na platnoe esli vas ne poymyt. Free oni mogit pomoch bymagi sdelat free na razvod. S takoy free konsyltatsii mne predlagali free sdelat' zayavleniya v syd. Potom v pri sydah est yuristi y kotorih dni gde oni free konsyltoryyt, ne soglashaytes na zakreplenie za youristom dly vedenie dela platno, gde oni potom dengi za razvod s vashih deneg posle razvoda , tam mnoho bydet tisyachami, osobenno esli myz ne hochet delit' i bydyt spornie voprosi, mozet na neskolko let zatyanytsya.
I can't afford a lawyer. What are my options?
1. You may be eligible for legal aid assistance. Legal Aid Alberta provides lawyers at an affordable cost for people who need assistance for certain criminal or civil matters and don't have the resources to hire a lawyer. To inquire about legal aid assistance, contact Legal Aid Alberta.
2. The Law Society of Alberta Referral Service can refer you to a lawyer who will provide you with 30 minutes of free legal advice. The referral service can be reached at 1-800-661-1095 (in Alberta only) or 228-1722 in Calgary.
3. Student Legal Services in Edmonton at 780-492-2226 and Calgary Legal Guidance at 403-234-9266 may be able to provide you with free legal advice.
4. The Edmonton Community Legal Centre is a non-profit organization offering free legal advice and representation for low-income Edmontonians with specific civil law issues.
5. Law Information Centres (LInC) provide people representing themselves in court or in a legal matter with assistance in completing court forms and understanding court procedures, access to legal information, cases and precedents, information about alternatives to court such as mediation, and legal advice options.
You can find more information on the Law Information Centres (LInC) on the Alberta Courts website.
Alberta Justice lawyers provide advice to the government and cannot provide legal advice to members of the public.
http://justice.alberta.ca/programs_serv ... tions.aspx
Family Law Act
http://www.canlii.org/en/on/laws/stat/r ... -c-f3.html
http://www.justice.gov.yk.ca/pdf/flguide.pdf
http://www.divorceincanada.ca/
http://revolutionizingdivorce.com/book- ... sultation/
http://www.albertacourts.ab.ca/fjs/self ... ce-forms-2
http://www.divorceincanada.ca/equalization.htm
http://www.lsuc.on.ca/For-Lawyers/Manag ... Law-Rules/
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